Dive deeply. Connect fully. Live ecstatically.
ecstaticlifepath
with Andrés Cordero, Jr., PhD, Human Sexuality and
Certified Sexologist, American Board of Sexology
Overview
Become empowered. Get informed. Live in joy!
Sexuality means many things. It includes who you are, how you "walk in the world," who you are attracted to, how you connect with yourself and others, and how you express yourself.Our culture often discourages us from exploring our sexuality-including our bodies.** When we fail to embrace this part of ourselves, we abandon "embodied knowledge." Embodied knowledge can emerge as joy, peace, anger, or even trauma.When we embrace our sexuality we create a better world for ourselves and those we love. Ultimately, we can celebrate the rich tapestry of diversity in our lives.Join me and let's take that journey together!
About
What can we explore?
Embodiment life coaching helps you to connect to your body and embodied knowledge. It can help you to better understand your sexuality, including who you are, who and what you are attracted to, and how you express yourself. In short, embodiment life coaching can help you to bring greater clarity of purpose to your life.
About
Explore your sexuality.
Explore your sexuality as it relates to any aspect of your life. Who you are, what your interests and attractions are, and how you express them. Investigate how your identity plays a role in forming your relationships, building confidence, setting boundaries, live with greater authenticity, effectively give and receive consent, and even express your desires and negotiate interactions in your relationships.
About
Connect in safety, confidentiality, and authenticity.
When I work with you, we co-create and engage in a process that honors and respects who you are and what choices you make. Your sessions are confidential, and you are invited to be as transparent and authentic as you like to be, sharing whatever is most comfortable for you.
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Engage in your sessions from anywhere.
In working with me, you can schedule your sessions whenever and however you wish. Choose what is most convenient for you. Participate by Zoom.us internet video session, by phone, or even in-person if you live in south central Texas.
Services
Coaching services
I offer sessions designed to best meet your needs. Included are Partner(s) Sex & Relationship Coaching, One-on-one Intimacy Coaching, Pre-Intimacy Coaching, and Embodied Empowerment (Body Confidence).
Services
Sex, relationship, & embodied life coaching for couples and partners
You can have a successful relationship or relationships that meet your needs. You can learn how to give and receive confidence, compassion, presence, and care. I work with paired partners or multi-member partnerships with diverse genders, sexual orientation, or sexual expressions.
Overview
Sex, relationship, & embodied life coaching for individuals
In relationship, you may struggle to maintain or expand your connection with your partner(s). Working one-on-one, I can help you to better understand your situation, explore your options, or address issues within your relationship dynamics.
Overview
Pre-intimacy coaching
Many of my clients want to develop skills and build their knowledge before pursuing a relationship(s). In these situations, pre-intimacy coaching can get you prepared. I work with you to build knowledge and understanding on how to navigate the often intimidating modern landscape of those seeking relationship(s).
Overview
Embodied confidence
Do you love your body? Feeling uncomfortable in your body often creates a barrier to finding intimacy or relationship with others How you feel about your body truly matters. Embracing your body can bring you greater self-confidence and self-love. I help people to initiate or expand their relationship with their bodies,
Overview
Meet the coach.
My name is Andrés Cordero, Jr., PhD, I hold a doctorate in Human Sexuality and I am a Certified Sexologist from the American Board of Sexology. My full resumé/curriculum vitae is available on this site.
Kind words from a past client...
My experience with Andrés was awesome! I entered with a quest for knowledge to enhance my intimate relationship with myself and my partner.Not only did Andrés have what I was looking for (including tools for me to explore on my own), his unique, personal insight was just what I needed.~ S.S., September 2017
Overview
Get started with Andrés today!
Let's meet, get to know each other, and discuss the benefits and possibilities of embodied life coaching. Bring your questions, your curiosities and your needs, and let's discuss what may be possible when we work together!
How I work
Deepen connection to cultivate intimacy.
I use an embodied life coaching approach to create safe (or sacred) space to encourage vulnerability and authenticity, offer sessions that integrate mind and body, and focus on addressing your needs.
How I Work
I create safe space for your sessions...
I encourage my clients to share authentically, experiment with vulnerability, and take calculated risks during their sessions to expand their knowledge, skills, and experiences. I offer safety by honoring confidentiality, participate together with my clients in co-creating, and offer accessibility between sessions when "after-care" can further support their experiences.
How I Work
We work with mind and body...
You may already have experienced embodied knowledge. People often speak of their "gut instinct" or "sixth sense," for example. During client sessions, I teach clients practice to help detect when they are experiencing this knowledge, how to comprehend it, and how it can be used to make better decisions or gain greater perspective.
Kind words from a past client...
It was scary to confront some of my fears and wants. Andrés made me feel so safe! I could never do it otherwise!~ K.Q., September 2016
How I Work
Coaching rates
When clients explore their options, I encourage them to recognize their fees represent a long-term investment in their lives. I offer single ("one-off") sessions as well as multiple-session packages that can lower their per-session rate. Future clients receive a service proposal with rates after completing their free Exploratory Session.
Getting Started
Share some info to get started.
Although optional, you can use the online form available on the right to provide some basic information on your anticipated embodiment life coaching needs. I will use the information you provide during your Exploratory Session to guide our conversation.
Getting Started
Let's start today!
Let's meet, get to know each other, and discuss the benefits and possibilities of embodied life coaching. Bring your questions, your curiosities and your needs, and let's discuss what may be possible when we work together!
In focus
Discover your core desires.
Explore your sexuality. Connect in a safe space. Get support from anywhere.
IN FOCUS
Is intimacy coaching right for you?
Some potential clients question how embodied life coaching can benefit them in their lives. Watch the video on the left to learn more about the process, and how it may benefit you.
Kind words from a past client...
I think what you’re doing is very important. I’m becoming a mental health educator. I teach lots of powerful skills but I think perhaps the most important one may be to love ourselves. What you are teaching fits very nicely with that; at least it certainly does in my own experience.~ Anonymous, September 2016
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Frequently asked questions (FAQs) ...
Are you unable to find an answer to your question? Search this database of frequently asked questions, or send me an email and I'll get back to you.
Getting Started
Start down your path today.
Let's meet, get to know each other, and discuss the benefits and possibilities of embodied life coaching. Bring your questions, your curiosities and your needs, and let's discuss what may be possible when we work together!
In Focus
What is ecstatic living?
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Coaching services
COMING SOON
From your coach
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.Living never wore one out so much as the effort not to live.”- Anaïs Nin, Writer & Diarist
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Questions before getting started?
Please send me your questions. I make effort to respond to questions within 3 to 5 business days, excluding weekends and holidays. You may also find the answer to your question by searching my Frequently-Asked Questions page.
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Upcoming events
I often faciliate, co-facilitate, or promote workshops, learning sessions, and programs that my clients may find beneficial. Explore my calendar of events here.
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Events listing
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Let's work together!
Let's meet, get to know each other, and discuss the benefits and possibilities of embodied life coaching. Bring your questions, your curiosities and your needs, and let's discuss what may be possible when we work together!
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Meet Andrés.
COMING SOON
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You deserve this!
Still not sure? Please watch the video on the left and consider scheduling a free Exploratory Session. There is no commitment, and I may be able to guide you to other resources even if you decide you are not ready to begin coaching.
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Contact me.
Please send me your questions or comments. I make effort to respond within 3 to 5 business days, excluding weekends and holidays.
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Schedule your free exploratory session.
Let's meet, get to know each other, and discuss the benefits and possibilities of embodied life coaching. Bring your questions, your curiosities and your needs, and let's discuss what may be possible when we work together!
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Exploratory Session questionnaire
2025 Fee Schedule
| Service | Time | # of Sessions | Base Fee | Discount Rate | Total Fee | 2 Monthly Payments | 3 Monthly Payments | 4 Monthly Payments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Introductory Session | ||||||||
| First Session (One) | 20 minutes | 1 | $0.00 (Free) | None | $0.00 | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| Single Sessions (One-Offs) | ||||||||
| All Sessions | 30 minutes | 1 | $100 | None | $100 | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| All Sessions | 60 minutes (1 Hour) | 1 | $200 | None | $200 | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| All Sessions | 90 minutes (1.5 Hours) | 1 | $300 | None | $300 | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| All Sessions | 120 minutes (2 Hours) | 1 | $400 | None | $400 | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 3-Session Package | ||||||||
| All Sessions | 30 mins | 3 | $300 | 10% | $270 | $135 | $90 | $68 |
| All Sessions | 60 minutes (1 Hour) | 3 | $600 | 10% | $540 | $270 | $180 | $135 |
| All Sessions | 90 minutes (1.5 Hours) | 3 | $900 | 10% | $810 | $405 | $270 | $203 |
| All Sessions | 120 minutes (2 Hours) | 3 | $1,200 | 10% | $1,080 | $540 | $360 | $270 |
| 4-Session Package | ||||||||
| All Sessions | 30 mins | 4 | $400 | 15% | $340 | $170 | $114 | $85 |
| All Sessions | 60 minutes (1 Hour) | 4 | $800 | 15% | $680 | $340 | $227 | $170 |
| All Sessions | 90 minutes (1.5 Hours) | 4 | $1,200 | 15% | $1,020 | $510 | $340 | $255 |
| All Sessions | 120 minutes (2 Hours) | 4 | $1,600 | 15% | $1,360 | $680 | $453 | $340 |
| Daily 8-Hour Rate | ||||||||
| Daily | 8 Hours | 1 | $1,600 | None | $1,600 | $800 | $533 | $400 |